![]() Stick with the truth, if you are gay, tell them. If you are coming out as gay, avoid the trap of thinking that coming out as bisexual first is an easier way to help them reach a place of acceptance. While it might feel scary to have to think about these questions, it’s crucial to be prepared. Your safety and well-being must always come first. Is now the right time? Would a safer option be to wait until you move out or go to Uni? What is your plan B if the worst does happen? Do you have the number for helplines? Can you go and stay with extended family or close a friend if you need some space while your parents adjust to the news. This will give you a safe space to turn to if your parent’s reaction is hostile and help you feel stronger going into it. This could be a teacher, someone from your extended family or a friend’s parent. Make sure you have support and tell at least one adult that you trust before you tell your parents. If you have homophobic parents but you want to come out – this article is for you. ![]() ![]() But all of them leave you thinking “that’s all very well and good but you don’t know MY mum or dad…” Some have been helpful, some are downright patronizing. So you’ve read a few blogs or articles, maybe watched some stuff on YouTube… generally done some research on how to come out to your parents.
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